So I was catching up on clips of “The Daily Show” over the internet this morning, and I happened upon the interview from last night’s episode. It was a discussion between Jon Stewart and Mike Huckabee upon that most contentious of domestic political issues: abortion. You can watch it here; it’s definitely worth a viewing or two.
One of the things that struck me about this interview was how both participants (briefly) touched upon the terms in which the broader abortion debate is framed, and how those terms do a great disservice to both sides involved. The term “pro-life” carries with it major implications – specifically, that the other side of the debate is anti-life, or at least not pro-life. Yet, as Governor Huckabee freely admits early in the discussion, no one (outside of a fringe minority that’s so small, it’s not even worth discussing in this context) is really “pro-abortion.” No one sees the termination of a pregnancy as a good thing in and of itself. What’s more, I think one would be hard-pressed to find someone who wouldn’t want our society to become one in which abortions simply don’t happen.
So if both sides really do share this much common ground at this elementary level of the debate, whence arises all the animosity that this topic engenders? How does the discourse jump from that common starting point, to the point where someone shoots and kills a doctor in the middle of a church service?
“Well, the shooter was clearly deranged,” most people say as they shrug off the question. Probably true; I have little doubt that Scott Roeder, the man who allegedly murdered Dr. George Tiller, had multiple psychiatric issues. But just being a complete nutball rarely seems to be a sufficient motive to actually take the step of putting a bullet through someone’s head at point-blank range, especially while that someone is working as an usher during a worship service. Instead, I’m firmly convinced that the way in which we, as a society, have taken to debating this issue played a significant role in how this tragedy unfolded.
Now, here’s the great, unmentioned elephant in the middle of the metaphorical room that is this great, decades-long debate that American society has had over abortion: no matter how afraid we are to admit it, we can’t say for sure when “life” begins. If God exists, it’s really up to Him/Her/It to decide when life begins, but He/She/It certainly hasn’t been too terribly specific about it when it comes to Scriptural references. Now, yes, I know that a lot of the anti-Roe crowd likes to cite Jeremiah 1:5 (“Before you were formed in the womb, I knew you”), in order to demonstrate that God considers life to begin at conception. But I must say, I don’t find this to be a terribly compelling argument at all; to me, this verse seems to be saying that God knows each and every human’s ultimate destiny long before we were born – and some zygotes are simply not destined to make it to birth. 10-25% of all pregnancies end in miscarriage, most of them during the first trimester. I’m not sure what the exact proportion is, but I would imagine that most of these occur when the embryo is little more than a clump of cells, ie: a blastocyst. It might just be me, but I find it hard to believe that God considers these embryos to be “human lives” – and even if He/She/It does, I think that everyone can agree that it’s not a black-and-white issue. Otherwise, why aren’t we having funerals for each and every blastocyst that spontaneously terminates? Why aren’t self-proclaimed pro-lifers pouring hundreds of billions of dollars into research that decreases that 10-25% of embryos that spontaneously abort? And no, I’m not being sarcastic or snarky in saying this; I’m genuinely wondering why there isn’t more of an outcry for a solution to something that might be preventable, and yet continues to cause the death of anywhere from 10-25% of the entire human population, according to the logic of those who would claim that life starts at conception.
On the flip side, however, I must say that I see a distinct lack of humility in a lot of Roe v. Wade supporters as well, and I say that as a supporter of Roe myself. On one hand, like I said, I don’t know when life begins, and I doubt that it begins at conception, when an embryo is nothing more than a fertilized cell. On the other hand, that great expanse of time between conception and birth consists of a pretty massive “gray area,” wherein a fetus develops a LOT of human-like characteristics. It’s such a gray area, in fact, that I must say, I find claims that anyone knows for sure that life doesn’t begin until birth, to be extremely dubious, to say the least. And it really doesn’t do the public discourse on the issue any good for someone to make that claim, either. So why do so many Roe supporters make such a claim when they can’t really back it up? It seems to me that such claims are little more than a big “screw you” to the Religious Right – and while I’m sure those utterances are cathartic, do they really help to advance the discussion any further? Or do they only serve to polarize the discussion further than it already is? In my experience, it’s a lot more of the latter option, unfortunately.
Words mean a lot more than we in the Western world are comfortable admitting. Whether we realize it or not, the rhetoric we utilize to express our opinions can have an effect upon how we, and those we agree with, perceive the rest of the world. We, as a society, do not benefit from when we hat, of course, is taken to the next exponential level when we add mass media hysteria into the equation. I, personally, can’t see how one can argue that the killing of Dr. Tiller, or the Holocaust Museum shooting, wasn’t in any way, shape, or form connected to the lunatic rantings of the Glenn Becks and Sean Hannitys of the world. Nor do I imagine that callous, unthinking claims by socially left-wing individuals that they know that a third-trimester fetus isn’t a human life and therefore doesn’t have value, had absolutely nothing to do with these sorts of tragedies, either.
We as a society would be much better-served if we humbled ourselves when it comes to making big metaphysical calls like these. I’m of the opinion that both sides of the discourse would find a lot more common ground if they began from a common position (ie: that abortion is, overall, not a great thing and we’d like to make it unnecessary in our culture), and if they abandoned a moralistic or rights-based mindset for a pragmatic one (for example, HOW do we make abortion an unnecessary option in our society, without doing even more damage to society as a whole?).
Personally, I ask myself the question, “When does life begin?”, and I can’t say for sure. Because of this, I look at this issue from a standpoint of caution and humility. Since I can’t say for sure when life begins, it’s kind of tough for me to say that it DOESN’T begin somewhere in the first trimester, and therefore people can have abortions without it being “wrong” on any level. It’s for this reason that I think abortion is, overall, a net evil in our society, and it would be best if we made it an unnecessary procedure.
On the other hand, I also believe that it’s incredibly arrogant for someone to claim that the “best” we can do as a society, with regard to an issue this complex, is to criminalize it, and then dust off our hands and watch what happens. Andrew Sullivan has posted some poignant, sometimes heartbreaking, stories from regular readers who have had abortions over the years, and as one reads them, it becomes more and more clear how incredibly personal and painful a dilemma an unintended (or ultimately doomed) pregnancy can pose to the individuals involved. It’s impossible to read these stories and then assert that there’s somehow a clear-cut, righteous course of action for any of these sets of circumstances.
One of those stories cuts to the core of the debate, too: assuming our government decided to criminalize abortion, what then? Does abortion simply end in America? Or does it simply become much more dangerous for those involved? And is it okay that obtaining an abortion becomes much more dangerous for those involved? Personally, I have a had time believing in an All-Loving God who sees that as a solution to such a complex, deeply personal, painful issue. The God I worship is capable of a little more nuance than that.
So because this debate is fraught with so many gray areas, and nobody can really claim to have any certainty for where the lines are drawn between life and not-life, justified abortion and unjustified abortion, etc, I think we as a culture are left with two options: one, continue butting heads with each other while speaking in terminologies upon which neither side agrees; or two, leave the metaphysical and liberties-based arguments aside and deal with the argument on purely pragmatic grounds.
If both sides can more or less agree that abortion is a negative thing that we’d like to see less of, it shouldn’t be hard for both sides of the discourse to produce a range of very viable solutions (or at least options that ultimately ameliorate the problem). Most people would rather see teens waiting to have sex until they’re at least in their late teens, if not until marriage; that said, all available evidence suggests that abstinence-only sex-ed really doesn’t curb rates of premarital sex. Therefore, we, as a country, need to start implementing comprehensive sex-ed programs, which emphasize both abstinence AND properly-administered birth control and contraceptives. This one step we, as a culture, could take, would undoubtedly take a tremendous chunk out of our national elective abortion rates. I would imagine that improved social services catering to unwed, unemployed mothers-to-be would take another sizable chunk out of those numbers.
Ultimately, I can’t help but see elective abortions in this country as anything but unfortunate signs of how we, as a society, have failed our younger demographics as a whole. We’ve failed to educate them properly about the consequences of their mistakes; we’ve failed to inform them of how they can mitigate the fallout of their mistakes, so that other lives or potential lives aren’t harmed in the process; and we’ve failed to volunteer our own time and money to help clean up the mess of their mistakes, once they’ve come to fruition.
How often, for instance, do you see a rabidly anti-Roe activist go up to a young woman walking into an abortion clinic, offer to take that girl in, pay for her prenatal care and education, and promise to help raise her child if she carries it to term? Not all that often. I see a lot of bluster from so-called social conservatives on this issue, but not much constructive action, and even less sacrifice. And yet, if abortion really does end human lives, shouldn’t someone claiming to be “pro-life” be only too willing to give up his or her time, money, and energy to help that young woman carry her fetus to term and raise the child? I wish I could say I see this happening frequently, but I really don’t. That’s a big part of why I believe we, as a society, are not well-served by the terminology we use in this debate. I find it hard to see someone as “pro-life” when they’re really only willing to spew a lot of bile and demonize desperate young women and well-meaning doctors to defend what they claim is a full-fledged human life.
Ultimately, I think we would be better-served to change our terminology to something more along the lines of “pro-Roe” and “anti-Roe,” or “pro-criminalization” and “anti-criminalization.” More importantly, I think we would be better-served to admit that everyone discussing this issue is dealing with a very complex dilemma that only gets more scarring, more confusing, and more desperate the more directly one is involved. We’ve exhausted the framework for discussion that we’ve been using since 1976 until now, and we’re unlikely to get any further than disagreeing along the lines of, “Life begins at X!” “No, life begins at Y!” A new framework for discussion is needed, one in which the vast majority of those involved can agree on the ultimate goal for our society: less unplanned pregnancies, and less abortions. Only then can we hope to see an end to the caricatures, hyperbole, and ultimate demonization of the “other side” of the discussion; only then will this complex issue stop bringing out the most monstrous side in some of us.